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Monday, 01 June 2009

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Wednesday, 10 September 2008

  • Why?  Did I think having children would be easy?  I thought, heck, I survived, how hard could it be?  Sigh...  When does maternity leave end again...

Sunday, 31 August 2008

  • They arrived July 15th and yes, I'm seeing way too much of the 4am time slot.  And the statement given to me by a fellow MOM (mother of multiples) and co-worker keeping circling my head:  "Do not expect anyone with one child to understand you."  Truer words have never been spoken. 

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Friday, 11 July 2008

  • Update

    Babies could be here anytime now.  I've made it to term and it'll be nice to finally meet them (and to not have them taking turns kicking me at 4am---Yeah, I know, I'm still going to be seeing a lot of the 4am time slot, but I can fantasize can't I?). 

Friday, 27 June 2008

Friday, 20 June 2008

  • Anti-social

    I finally happened across a quote in my Mom's of Twins book (see Amazon link below) that made me feel normal.  It went something like "by the third trimester 95% of your time is spent on the couch."   In my case I've only managed to migrate from the bed, to the couch, and back to bed this entire week.  Today was a bit better and I actually did two loads of laundry.  Bottom line is I think I've entered the stage feeling like hell all day long (carpal tunnel in both hands, swelled face/feet/hands, exhaustion, nausea and the list goes on).    Long story short, this is my apology to anyone who knows me for being anti-social these last couple of weeks.  It's just simply easier to stay home and sleep at this point.  Why can't being pregnant be easy?  Let me rephrase:  why can't being pregnant with twins be easy?  And I wonder what it says about me that my new favorite TV show is Jon and Kate plus 8 on TLC? 

    Currently Reading
    Ready or Not Here We Come!: The Real Experts' Guide to the First Year With Twins
    By Elizabeth Lyons
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Wednesday, 11 June 2008

  • Rite of Passage

    I don't think Emer has a boyfriend now.  It's more akin to a territorial dispute.  She was in her first battle yesterday in our yard (first known battle to me anyway) and came out the losing side.  So I have a very unhappy kitty with a bandaged tail who was trying to take out my lighting set up I was playing with today.  She did hold still long enough to glower at me. 

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Tuesday, 03 June 2008

Friday, 30 May 2008

Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Monday, 19 May 2008

  • Days Like This Are Rare and Appreciated

    I started today out trying to find a local Colonial Insurance office here in town.  The address given to me by a coworker was no longer in existence.  Ok.  20 minute drive shot.  So there happened to be a new phone book left out at this particular office building that no longer housed the office I was looking for.  So I look up a second address.  My luck, it's out near Eagle.  That takes me another 35 minutes to drive out to this new address. 

    By now I'm annoyed, slightly stressed, and any calls placed to either agent's number sends me directly to voice mail.  I'm thinking the proverbial "people suck" at this point.

    I arrive at the new address and lo and behold, no Colonial Insurance office listed on the building directory.  What the hell...I go inside and run smack into a former student of mine who is now working as a retirement broker in the building only in a different office.  I had her as a student about five years ago.  I'm guessing this was all fate since she recognized me and I told what I was looking for and her reply was "they used to be here, but let's go to my office and call."  She got online, found the local agent I was looking for, called him, and found out the address I was currently sitting at is where is office is located.  Hmmm that's interesting.  Long story made short, she directs me to go up to the 3rd floor and I discover that an independent agency under a different name contracts with Colonial (or something to that effect).  Mystery solved.  But thank heavens for my former student's kindness.  I was ready to just give up and say:  I don't need supplemental NICU insurance.  I'll take my chances.  

    By 12:45 I'm finally home after driving around since before 10am.  Time to relax.  Yeah right. 

    Time to handle student complaints about grades.   

    I'm still in the process of talking to the Department Chair, etc.  Only at 1pm I'm more than slightly stressed as I stated earlier, I'm downright angry.  I'm not angry that the student contests his/her grade.  That's normal and understandable.  I'm angry because this student is accusing me of taking homework, not grading it, throwing it away, and then giving him/her a zero.  Never have I done unethical in my teaching career.  Let alone something as petty as throwing away homework.  It never happened.  But, I'm the one now taking the matter up with the Chair since the student balked when I said I was going to take this further than just us, but my reputation is at stake if someone is going to accuse me of such a horrible thing I want him/her to prove it. 

    So at 2pm I'm back to square one and thinking the worst about humanity in general.   

    I then take a break and go browsing Craigslist looking for baby items.  I find a changing pad and other misc. stuff listed for cheap and send an email to the seller.  Now my typical luck with Craigslist is I'm always the third or fourth person to inquire about something that's already been sold.  Not this time.  I make arrangements for an evening pickup of the baby items.  Things are looking up. 

    And that leads me to now at 7pm.  When I went to pick up and pay for the items, the couple that open the door have 10-month-old twin boys.  That made my day.  I told them husband and I are expecting twin girls.  So this really nice couple invited me into their home and we spent a half-an-hour talking about the challenges and joys of twins.  In short, I made new friends, which was a completely unexpected turn of events when I went to their home.  I'm learning both how big, yet small, this parents-of-twins "club" is here in Boise. 

    The moral of this whole stream of consciousness rant is that my faith in the general goodness of people is restored and I'm grateful. 

Saturday, 03 May 2008

  • Garage Sales

    I love garage sales.  They're meant to be fun.  Buyers get great deals and sellers get rid of items they no longer want/need.  I've held my share of garage sales, so I know of what I speak. But, what I don't understand are the sellers that want to sell used baby clothes, some with stains, for $3 a shirt for a 6-month-old when the same shirt sells at Target for $6.  Then they act indignant when you want to bargain.  If the items were new-with-tags, I might cut them some slack.  But, the point of garage sales is good deals and getting rid of stuff you no longer need.  It's never to make a huge profit.   (To me--Ebay is for profit. Although I did get some great deals on maternity clothes on there too--$30 for 18 pieces of clothing and free shipping).   So I walked away.  No sale.  Maybe they will get a better deal with a tax right off by donating those items to the Youth Ranch.  Either way, I wish them luck.